SHARED THOUGHTS – 22.11.2015
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Rules For Seniors & to those not yet there… !!
Nobody
is young forever. From a “happy birthday” and “colour dress” days, a birthday
in later years becomes just a number; a matter over mind. If you don’t mind,
then it doesn’t matter. The young of today are the seniors to tomorrow, just as
the Seniors of today had their youth and future on their side a while ago. Time
seems to be on the fast track as years roll by and before one realises, the
future has shrunk and the past has expanded to engulf one’s present.. thus a
Senior involuntarily tends to live at times in the past, for which there must
never be a feeling of guilt.. rather enjoy the reverse journey if you must. The
more pleasant the past, the better…. as it is then a pleasure to ruminate over
the happy moments and smile to ourselves. Even the odd sad moments must be
overlapped by the many ecstatic moments that must be there. The only way one
can have a pleasant past is to be pleasant now, every day.
So
read on, some golden rules for the golden age, which must be also known
to those who are a bit distant from that landmark stage, so that when Seniors
live by these rules, there is a perfect appreciation. .
“Some
of us have reached our golden years, and some of us have not. But these
suggestions should be read by everyone. They have been collected from many a
senior, each with his or her own piece of advice. Some you know, some may
surprise you, and some will remind you of what's important. So read well, share
with your loved ones, and have a great day and a great life!
1. It's time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don't just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard earned capital. Warning: This is also a bad time for an investment, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries and this is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
2. Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don't feel bad spending your money on yourself. You've taken care of them for many years, and you've taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
3. Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It's easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, get tested even when you're feeling well. Stay informed.
4. Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together.
5. Don't stress over the little things. You've already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don't let the past drag you down and don't let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten.
6. Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: "A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection."
7. Be proud, both inside and out. Don't stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.
8. Don't lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. There's nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters. You've developed your own sense of what looks good on you - keep it and be proud of it. It's part of who you are.
9. ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You'll be surprised which old friends you'll meet. Keeping in touch with what is going on and with the people you know is important at any age.
10. Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them of yesterday's wisdom that still applies today.
11. Never use the phrase: "In my time". Your time is now. As long as you're alive, you are part of this time. You may have been younger, but you are still you now, having fun and enjoying life.
12. Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it'll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you old..................
1. It's time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don't just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard earned capital. Warning: This is also a bad time for an investment, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries and this is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
2. Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don't feel bad spending your money on yourself. You've taken care of them for many years, and you've taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
3. Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It's easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, get tested even when you're feeling well. Stay informed.
4. Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together.
5. Don't stress over the little things. You've already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don't let the past drag you down and don't let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten.
6. Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: "A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection."
7. Be proud, both inside and out. Don't stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.
8. Don't lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. There's nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters. You've developed your own sense of what looks good on you - keep it and be proud of it. It's part of who you are.
9. ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You'll be surprised which old friends you'll meet. Keeping in touch with what is going on and with the people you know is important at any age.
10. Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them of yesterday's wisdom that still applies today.
11. Never use the phrase: "In my time". Your time is now. As long as you're alive, you are part of this time. You may have been younger, but you are still you now, having fun and enjoying life.
12. Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it'll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you old..................
Good
Luck to all.”
I
would like to add a No.13 to the above valid list of 12 Rules.
13.
- Be busy doing whatever you like doing not just to keep yourself active, but
serious work, remunerative if possible or serious honorary work, as long as you
possibly can. Having colleagues, being in the decision making circle, or being
a decision maker...Never ‘Retire’ to have a blank day before you when you wake
up... that will be the most depressing day. Have a list of To Do.. which should
find new things to do each day.
There
is a village Attingal near Trivandrum Kerala where there was a small temple in
a dilapidated state. The local residents with the help of many NRIs formed a
committee to renovate the temple. The end result today is that many leading
doctors and professionals from the West & Gulf have found it attractive to
return to this village to fully immerse themselves in full time temple
activity. Their generous contributions have made this small temple a glorious
place of worship, I am told.
My
brother, a retired senior banker, found empty days to wake up to, on
retirement. He decided to join the local temple committee and the result is
astounding. Today th is small temple in a sleepy village is making news in the
entire region doing yeomen service to the community and thereby the temple has
grown in stature and glory. His untiring efforts have proved to be contagious;
attracting volunteers of all ages to do multi-various social work benefiting
orphans, destitutes, inculcating the nuances of rich Indian culture etc.
The
bottom line to have a pleasant retired life is to be having good health on your
side. This alone will prove to be the biggest wealth more than any other form
for which one would have sacrificed the entire youth and precious years in a
mad rat race. The goal of retirement must be to never get ‘tired’ ..instead
enjoy life and be in a better health than before, even if there is no day off
in the retired life and there is no pay.
The work towards this goal must start decades
before one retires.. hence the importance of this message to the youngsters of
today.
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Have a safe &
peaceful week ahead.
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